How To Find Out If Someone Is Legally Married For Free
How do I find out if someone is legally married? - I Just talk to them
To find out if someone is married without paying a private investigator you need to become a human lie detector. You can do this by spending some time with the person and asking them some questions about themselves. If someone is married and they don't want you to know, you can ask them certain questions that they will have to lie to you about to keep the secret. It's a matter of detecting the lies that you're being told and if you do it the right way then it's not difficult to do. I'm going to tell you exactly how you can do this and show you how you can confirm any suspicions that you might have about the person.
Questions - questions - questions
Prepare a list of questions to have ready to ask your date whenever you see them, speak on the phone or on Internet chat etc. Don't try to ask them all at once though or he or she might catch on to what you're doing. If that happens they could back off or become extra cautious in what they tell you. Keep the conversations cool and natural and this method can work like a charm.
Think of 10 - 15 questions to ask your date and write them down. Each time you talk to your friend memorize one of the questions and make sure to leave the list at home when you're together. Wait for a good moment then Work your question into the conversation.
A list of some questions you should ask your date
- Is he married? That's right come right out with it because it's a reasonable question.
- Where does he work?
- Get his or her cell phone number?
- Find out his or her age?
- Are there any children from a previous relationship?
- Do they have any hobbies?
- Does he or she go to a gym? Which one and where is it?
- Have they been married before?
- Get a home address live?
- Where was he or she born?
- Home phone number?
- Cell phone number?
The list above is just to give you some ideas for questions. You can of course ask whatever you like. The more questions you ask the easier it will be for you to detect any lies you might be told and you can have fun asking them. The trick is to listen and remember the answers that you're given. Write down the answers the first chance that you get so that you can look back at them later.
If you are patient a liar will give themselves away sooner or later
Sooner or later your date will slip up and contradict what they have previously told you. The more questions that you ask and the more time that goes by, the more likely it is that you will catch the liar out. You have to be very good to tell convincing lies and keep them going over a long period of time. I can't remember what I said yesterday so remembering a lie that I might have told a week ago would be very hard to do. Only the most accomplished liars and confidence tricksters can do this convincingly.
By writing down the answers that you get it will soon become very obvious to you when you've been lied to because something won't quite add up. "You told me you did this last week but now you tell me you did that" - It doesn't matter what the lie was about because If he or she can lie to you about this then they might have lied to you about not being married too.
How Can I Find Out If Someone Is Legally married for certain?
If you suspect that something is wrong then you should find out for certain if they are married. You can do this by doing a background check on them and looking up their marriage records. You can also find out if they have a criminal record or arrest warrants and a whole load of other interesting and useful information about them. You can do this online in less than 10 minutes. If you think that you're being lied to or you don't want to waste time with questions and answers then an online background check is the way to go. You would be well advised to do a background check on anyone you meet before you decide to get serious with them whether they are lying to you or not. Online background checks are confidential so do it now.
Before you go online to check out your date please remember that public records can never be 100% accurate and should be used only as a guide. Just because you don't find a marriage record doens't mean that he is definitely not married. Also, if you do find a record it may not be correct or it may be out of date and he is long divorced. So if public records indicates that he may be married then challenge him on it and seek other evidence. If you don't find public records of his marriage and he continues to act suspiciously then dig deeper until you find out exactly why he is lying to you.
Remember - if you are not completely comfortable with your date or lover then walk away. Isn't it better to be safe than sorry?Use public records to find marriage records