Convict Search Engines | No Dating Without Checking
Always check your dates
It doesn't matter who you are or how old you are, you still need to be very careful when you date someone. I've just been reading an article about a mature lady who paid a dating agency a lot of money to find and vet a suitable partner for her only to find that the man they fixed her up with had a string of convictions to his name.
Now you might have expected that the dating agency would have made reasonable efforts to check whether it's members have criminal records or not. After all this wasn't a cheap online dating site, the fees were thousands of dollars and for that price I think that you should expect a thorough service. Apparently this didn't happen in this case.
Why pay an expensive dating agency?
You may ask yourself why anyone would want to pay so much money to an agency just to find a date. There are plenty of free dating web sites on the Internet that you can use after all. I'm guessing that they do it because they think that the agency will protect them in some way from getting a bad apple. It's also possible that they think that the more they pay then the more protection they are going to get. Unfortunately this isn't always the case.
So if you can't rely on someone else to background check your dates for you then what can you do? I would suggest that wherever possible you take responsibility for checking people out yourself. There is no harm in employing an agency who should be doing this for you of course but even if you do then do make sure that you do some simple online checks yourself. This way you can be sure that you have done everything that you can to make sure that you stay safe.
Background check your date
Before you ever do anything serious with a new friend, no matter how you met them, check them out online. There are some very well established background checking web sites on the Internet that you can use very cheaply. Not only do they work like convict search engines to show you previous convictions and arrest warrants that your date might have but they can also tell you a lot more about your friend too. Possibly more than you could ever expect from a dating agency or web site.
When I first started using background checking web sites to investigate people I wanted to know the big stuff like has he got any convictions or warrants out for him? Sometimes I was interested to know whether someone had been made bankrupt or not. A pretty important point when you are considering the possibility of spending the rest of your life with someone.
Investigating people can be fun
I hadn't been investigating people online for very long before I realized that there was so much more information that you can potentially find out about someone by using these web sites. You can check their address and phone number for a start. You can then go on to check if there are any marriage or divorce records. Did he tell you that he wasn't married? Now you might be able to catch him out.
When you have done all that you can even find information about relatives and neighbors. It's a whole lot of fun and can be very addictive once you get started.
Online investigations web sites gather together as much publicly available information that they can find into one enormous database. They can never be completely accurate or 100% complete of course but new records are added all the time and if you find something in there that gives you reason for concern then you should challenge your friend with it. It is always better to be safe than sorry so remember, make sure that your friend isn't hiding his past from you. No dating without background checking first.
Author: Steve Gee