Background Check Your Boyfriend
How to background check your boyfriend
Do you have a suspicion that there may be more to your boyfriend than meets the eye? Can you see signs that he isn't being exactly honest with you? Are you worried about taking your relationship to the next level until you know him better? Whatever your reasons are it's always a best to do a background check on your partner. More often than not it will give you some peace of mind and you can get on with having a good time together. Here's how to get a background check on your boyfriend.
First steps in checking out a boyfriend
Before you run to a private investigator or even an online public records database you should do a little probing of your new friend by asking him questions. Ask him about anything you can think of. For instance, where does he live? how long has he lived there? where did he live before that? where does he work? how long has he worked there? and anything else you can think of.
Make sure that you are subtle with your questions and make an effort to look interested in what he has to say. It will make it much easier for him to talk freely if he isn't being interrogated.
Don't forget to talk to his friends and family too and make notes about what they tell you. Look for any inconsistencies in the stories that they all tell you. If your boyfriend is being open and truthful with you then there won't be any inconsistencies.
Hiring a Private Investigator
Not too long ago the only way to get a background check done on someone was to hire a private detective (PI) to investigate for you. This is an effective method and if you use a good PI they can be very thorough with their investigations.
The problem with hiring a PI is that it can get expensive, especially if they are good at their job. This is because they charge an hourly rate and a good PI can ask more for their time. You will also have to pay a PI a similar amount the next time should you need to do a background check on someone else. If you do this often then be prepared to spend a lot of money.
Use an online database just like the law enforcement agencies do
Pay a small subscription fee and gain access to a service that combines all of the available public information into one huge database. All this information will then be at your fingertips? Believe it or not these services do exist and they are becoming very popular. You can do as many online background checks as you want to and you can do it on as many people as you want to whenever you want. Make sure that there isn't a criminal record, bankruptcy or wife that he isn't telling you about.
Until recently public records databases like this were available only to law enforcement agencies. Today you can be using the same databases that they use. If you need a background profile on your boyfriend then an online public records database could be a great place to start.